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Recently I am attending a course learning how to be a good mentor to my kids. I have deep reflection on this topic – what will I do if my\u00a0kids fail at school? How would I feel? Can I accept this?<\/p>\n
I belong to the generation which\u00a0education\u00a0qualification is very important to help someone get rid of poverty.\u00a0 \u201cHaving good education qualifications equal to a bright and successful future \u201c has become the ” natural law ” of many parents like me.\u00a0<\/p>\n
However, the tutor led us to think the other way.\u00a0 If your child fails at school, and you know very well that he has tried his best, what you need to do is to encourage him to proclaim,\u00a0 ”\u00a0I am\u00a0Not a Loser! ”\u00a0 Failing at school is not his end. It is just another starting point, pointing to another direction.<\/p>\n
Hardworking does not\u00a0always guarantee success.\u00a0 Many people work very hard but having only fair results.\u00a0<\/p>\n
We can achieve something not only because we work hard, but also because of\u00a0God’s Grace!<\/p>\n
Alison<\/p>\n<\/p>\n
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